How to Help Kids Set Goals
Independence & Confidence · 4 min read
Children set goals constantly. They just do not call them that. I want to ride my bike without the training wheels is a goal. The skill is helping them see the steps between here and there.
Start with what they want, not what you want
A goal your child chose will survive a bad week. A goal you chose for them usually will not.
Ask what they would like to be able to do. Then help them shape it into something specific.
Break it into visible steps
I want to save a hundred coins is intimidating. Put ten in the jar each week is doable.
Write the steps down. A goal with steps is a plan. A goal without steps is a wish.
Make progress something they can see
Children lose motivation when the goal feels far away. Visible progress keeps it alive.
A jar filling up, a bar on a chart, a streak. Anything that shows the thing getting closer.
Celebrate the reaching, then set another
When a goal is met, mark it properly. That memory is what makes a child willing to try something harder next time.
Then ask what is next. The habit of aiming at something is the real prize.
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